Practice to be in the role of encourager

 


Don’t beat yourself up if encouraging people doesn’t come naturally.

It’s not easy!

You have to listen, relate, empathize and sacrifice.

None of those things are a walk in the park.

This is a skill.

And, like any skill, learning how to encourage someone takes time.

Practice makes perfect though, so try to offer encouragement of one form or another at every opportunity! With time, effort, and patience, you’ll start feeling far more comfortable in the role of encourager.

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